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Richard Foster in Celebration of Disciplines within the chapter that focuses on Solitude quotes Dietrich Bonhoeffer, saying:
Let him who cannot be alone beware of community …. Let him who is not in community beware of being alone …. Each by its profound pitfalls and perils. One who wants fellowship without solitude plunges into the void of words and feelings, and one who seeks solitude without fellowship perishes in the abyss of vanity, self-infatuation, and despair.